Name: NSFWords, Brandy, BAM Sex/Gender Identity: Female biological sex/Lazy female gender. I don't have the energy or inclination to put any effort into being American Culture's version of Feminine. Sex/Romance/Other Orientation: Bisexual Switch. But its like 90% submissive. Until its just NOT. Monogamous because of a fragile attachment style caused by abandonment/abuse. Find Me At:Dreamwidth, Wordpress, and Twitter. What I Love About Valentines Day: Good food, chocolate, sex. Lupercalia the next day. What I Hate About Valentines Day: Heavy Expectations. All of them, but especially the idea that just because my husband and I don't have "Big Plans" then the "spark" must have left our relationship. What I Love to Do By Myself: I read. Mostly m/m erotic fanfiction and Paranormal erotica, but also Ysabet's site for warm feels, Fantasy Novels for beautiful and dangerous worlds, and the news only if I want to be pissed at humanity. I binge watch shows like NCIS, Criminal Minds, and My Little Pony. I prefer shopping alone, because I can slowly hunt the things on my list like prey. Heartbreak: I bruise my own heart any time I read a story featuring addiction, even though I know going in I'm going to cry buckets. Romantic Favorites:Robin D. Owens is a lesser known author of Paranormal Romance and I adore her Celta HeartMate series and Summoning series. They're romances with BIG doses of world building and plot and I reread them pretty regularly. Erotic Favorites: This list could be extensive, so I'm limiting myself to a top 5 favorites in fic - D/s, BDSMverse, Soul Bonds, Sentinel/Guide, & Knotting. My Kink(s): D/s. I only ever flirt with being a Masochist, but am definitely a Sadist when I'm feeling Dominant. Its all complicated and nuanced in practice, but those are handy terms. Platonic Favorites: Pet me. All the pets are for me. And I'll pet you too, if you're interested. I also love cooking for others. Favorite Blogs or Communities: AO3, Ysabet's blog, Keira Marcos. About My Blog: Its usually interesting for the first 1-4 months of the year while I'm posting my drabbles. Then life/job/etc. tends to get me and I fall off the face of the internet. What I Create: I write drabbles because I've not managed to consistently get my capacity to shush my internal editor to last past 200-600 words. I cook great Comfort Food. I sew and do hand embroidery when I'm feeling really really good. What I'm Looking For: I dunno. That's the toughest question on this list!
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Sex/Gender Identity: Female biological sex/Lazy female gender. I don't have the energy or inclination to put any effort into being American Culture's version of Feminine.
Sex/Romance/Other Orientation: Bisexual Switch. But its like 90% submissive. Until its just NOT. Monogamous because of a fragile attachment style caused by abandonment/abuse.
Find Me At: Dreamwidth, Wordpress, and Twitter.
What I Love About Valentines Day: Good food, chocolate, sex. Lupercalia the next day.
What I Hate About Valentines Day: Heavy Expectations. All of them, but especially the idea that just because my husband and I don't have "Big Plans" then the "spark" must have left our relationship.
What I Love to Do By Myself: I read. Mostly m/m erotic fanfiction and Paranormal erotica, but also Ysabet's site for warm feels, Fantasy Novels for beautiful and dangerous worlds, and the news only if I want to be pissed at humanity. I binge watch shows like NCIS, Criminal Minds, and My Little Pony. I prefer shopping alone, because I can slowly hunt the things on my list like prey.
Heartbreak: I bruise my own heart any time I read a story featuring addiction, even though I know going in I'm going to cry buckets.
Romantic Favorites: Robin D. Owens is a lesser known author of Paranormal Romance and I adore her Celta HeartMate series and Summoning series. They're romances with BIG doses of world building and plot and I reread them pretty regularly.
Erotic Favorites: This list could be extensive, so I'm limiting myself to a top 5 favorites in fic - D/s, BDSMverse, Soul Bonds, Sentinel/Guide, & Knotting.
My Kink(s): D/s. I only ever flirt with being a Masochist, but am definitely a Sadist when I'm feeling Dominant. Its all complicated and nuanced in practice, but those are handy terms.
Platonic Favorites: Pet me. All the pets are for me. And I'll pet you too, if you're interested. I also love cooking for others.
Favorite Blogs or Communities: AO3, Ysabet's blog, Keira Marcos.
About My Blog: Its usually interesting for the first 1-4 months of the year while I'm posting my drabbles. Then life/job/etc. tends to get me and I fall off the face of the internet.
What I Create: I write drabbles because I've not managed to consistently get my capacity to shush my internal editor to last past 200-600 words. I cook great Comfort Food. I sew and do hand embroidery when I'm feeling really really good.
What I'm Looking For: I dunno. That's the toughest question on this list!