>> And I still have to donate the rest of my Mom's stuff that I'm not keeping. <<

Some people find it easier to get rid of all at once, but most need to do it in small sections. This closet, that room; or the clothes, the dishes, etc.

>> And eventually I want out of Florida, but I don't know to where. <<

There are a lot of better places than that.

This disaster map shows that some places in the Great Plains and around the Great Lakes are low-risk for various natural disasters.

This one adds volcanoes and tsunamis.

Here's a list of low-risk areas.

>> I also promised a friend that I won't make any huge decisions for at least a year. I know she's' right.<<

That is wise advice.

>> I just spend a lot of time being tired. <<

*hugs offered*

Grief is exhausting. Dealing with the social expectations after a death is hard work. Of course you're tired.